Gosh, this thing called Mommyhood is so important. But, I am not telling you all anything new there, am I?
Have you ever stopped to realize that you are not just preparing them for their future here on earth, but also for where they will spend eternity?
Let that sink in and you will feel that load. It can feel so heavy if you are going to try and bare it alone. But, that's the beautiful thing, you don't have to. You can ask for help, HE is there to help guide your way, just seek HIS will.
Showing posts with label rambles of a Mom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rambles of a Mom. Show all posts
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
He calls me Mom...
and I can't think of anything better to be called. Although saddened that it's not Mommy anymore--the Mom thing happened a number of years ago and gosh that hits your heart. This is just another point that shows he is growing up. Which he is and all too fast for me. But, within the sadness I see a glimpse of his future and the man I pray he becomes. I see those moments every day and that makes my heart happy. Because one thing that I see is that his heart is AMAZING...truly amazing.
Remember around Christmas I had posts on RACKs? Well, it's not just a Christmas activity for us, we do try to do this throughout the year in different ways. The other night, I took him to get something out for dinner. (That's a treat, especially on a school night!) It was just the two of us. We were walking and passed a meter that was about to run out. He said "Oh, Mom we need to fill this for them. It's about to run out. Don't for get about RACKs." Mind you, he said this as you would picture a child asking for a cookie or something they wanted badly.
I looked at the time, knowing we were going to just pick dinner up and take it home that night and told him that if it was that way when we came out that we could. He checked it as soon as we got out and yes, he did fill it for them. After that, he had a hop in his step and my heart swelled. I said "Boy, I love your heart!". I do, I love his heart. I love him and I am blessed to be called Mom.
Remember around Christmas I had posts on RACKs? Well, it's not just a Christmas activity for us, we do try to do this throughout the year in different ways. The other night, I took him to get something out for dinner. (That's a treat, especially on a school night!) It was just the two of us. We were walking and passed a meter that was about to run out. He said "Oh, Mom we need to fill this for them. It's about to run out. Don't for get about RACKs." Mind you, he said this as you would picture a child asking for a cookie or something they wanted badly.
I looked at the time, knowing we were going to just pick dinner up and take it home that night and told him that if it was that way when we came out that we could. He checked it as soon as we got out and yes, he did fill it for them. After that, he had a hop in his step and my heart swelled. I said "Boy, I love your heart!". I do, I love his heart. I love him and I am blessed to be called Mom.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
How to encourage and yet prepare one for failure...
I struggle with this one. I want to encourage Little Man in everything he does. I want him to pour his heart out into whatever is his passion at the time. I want him to give his best--to be the best that he can be--whatever that is on that day.
Yet, I want to ease the blow of failure. I don't want to take it away. Not ever. I think when we fail at things or do less than what we expect of ourselves, we learn. Yes, I do feel that we learn though failures and hard times. But, as a Mom, it hurts to watch that struggle and the heart break that comes with it. Yet, I know through those times, God is working, too. So, I would not take them away.
Little Man, entered some pictures that he took into a contest. He didn't place. No ribbon was hung by his pictures as we looked at them hanging on the wall. Yet, I told him how proud I was of him for putting himself out there. The fact that he tried and did his best was what counted. My words were heard, perhaps even taken to heart. But, sadness still fell on his little face.
I was worried and wondered would he feel so defeated that he wouldn't want to try again? If so, how would I handle that? What words of wisdom would I have to offer him that he could grasp on to at that time? I didn't have to worry long though. Instead of total defeat, he proclaimed that he was trying again next year. Not only was he trying that, but he was trying another contest as well. In my head, it was Ahhh, that's my boy! I told him how proud I was of him--my husband and I both did. Then we cheered him up with petting a few animals. Nothing like animals to cheer my kid up. He is in his glory when he is around animals. You can tell he is at total peace and fully happy surrounded by them. Sometimes I joke that we should really be living on a farm with our kid.
Anyway, the lesson out of this? He's determined. He's willing to take the risk again. He'll keep trying his best knowing his best is all he can do. I could not be prouder. That drive and determination will take him further than what one ribbon could have done.
By the way, here are the photos he entered. Minus one of two sisters because I didn't ask their Mom's permission before this post and I don't post pictures of kids without permission. It was pretty--just take my word on that one.
A boy with his camera and his own sense of editing and style. Doesn't always match mine (and it shouldn't), but I do LOVE it. Yes, that's my boy!
Yet, I want to ease the blow of failure. I don't want to take it away. Not ever. I think when we fail at things or do less than what we expect of ourselves, we learn. Yes, I do feel that we learn though failures and hard times. But, as a Mom, it hurts to watch that struggle and the heart break that comes with it. Yet, I know through those times, God is working, too. So, I would not take them away.
Little Man, entered some pictures that he took into a contest. He didn't place. No ribbon was hung by his pictures as we looked at them hanging on the wall. Yet, I told him how proud I was of him for putting himself out there. The fact that he tried and did his best was what counted. My words were heard, perhaps even taken to heart. But, sadness still fell on his little face.
I was worried and wondered would he feel so defeated that he wouldn't want to try again? If so, how would I handle that? What words of wisdom would I have to offer him that he could grasp on to at that time? I didn't have to worry long though. Instead of total defeat, he proclaimed that he was trying again next year. Not only was he trying that, but he was trying another contest as well. In my head, it was Ahhh, that's my boy! I told him how proud I was of him--my husband and I both did. Then we cheered him up with petting a few animals. Nothing like animals to cheer my kid up. He is in his glory when he is around animals. You can tell he is at total peace and fully happy surrounded by them. Sometimes I joke that we should really be living on a farm with our kid.
Anyway, the lesson out of this? He's determined. He's willing to take the risk again. He'll keep trying his best knowing his best is all he can do. I could not be prouder. That drive and determination will take him further than what one ribbon could have done.
By the way, here are the photos he entered. Minus one of two sisters because I didn't ask their Mom's permission before this post and I don't post pictures of kids without permission. It was pretty--just take my word on that one.
Friday, August 19, 2011
Summer...
Summer is ending and I am not ready for Little Man to head back to school. I feel like our summer has gone by in a flash. But, signs are all around us that school is just around the corner. There is the back to school sales, teacher assignment letters, fall sports practices starting, etc. Everywhere you look there is a sign that summer is ending. So, how do you all handle this time of year?
On another note, we had our camp. This year it was ART camp. It was a great day for it and I am pretty sure the kids had fun. Might have to post some photos for you all to see in the future.
Speaking of photos Little Man is getting some printed that he has taken to enter in a contest. Excited for him. I love his eye. It's got something magical to it, of course it could be that I am his Mom and just a wee bit proud of him.
Next week, I will be back to posting on a more regular basis. But, don't expect anything too regular until September. (Keeping it real)
Have a great day everyone!
On another note, we had our camp. This year it was ART camp. It was a great day for it and I am pretty sure the kids had fun. Might have to post some photos for you all to see in the future.
Speaking of photos Little Man is getting some printed that he has taken to enter in a contest. Excited for him. I love his eye. It's got something magical to it, of course it could be that I am his Mom and just a wee bit proud of him.
Next week, I will be back to posting on a more regular basis. But, don't expect anything too regular until September. (Keeping it real)
Have a great day everyone!
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Song and my brief take on summer so far..
that I love...
My Savior, My God
Hope your summer is proving to be delightful! :) I can't believe that we are fully into July now and summer is slipping away too fast. Honestly, I wonder where it has gone. I LOVE having Little Man home and we've had such a great amount of family time. It's been great. I have a feeling though that the rest of the summer is going to slip by just as fast. YIKES!
My Savior, My God
Hope your summer is proving to be delightful! :) I can't believe that we are fully into July now and summer is slipping away too fast. Honestly, I wonder where it has gone. I LOVE having Little Man home and we've had such a great amount of family time. It's been great. I have a feeling though that the rest of the summer is going to slip by just as fast. YIKES!
Saturday, May 14, 2011
The Mission of Motherhood-Chapter 8
FYI...
Sorry everyone. The blogging has been crazy. Posts deleted and then back, not able to log in, etc. etc. All is well now in blog world and we return to our regular schedule. Since I know some of you only read via email, you might want to check the blog for posts you missed because of the craziness! :)
Gardener Of Souls
"Children do not accidently become mature adults of strong character, great faith, gracious relational skills, effective leadership qualities, and sharp intellects. God's design includes the presence of a hands -on gardener, a mother, to tend an cultivate their hearts, souls, minds, and relationships."
This is so true how can children grow in these ways without some help? She continues to talk about cultivating real skills, appropriate life experiences, manners and graciousness, appetities for excellence, and your own special garden.
As I look at each of these I think of some of my friends and how well they garden in certain aspects. How I can see their strenghts in gardening.
It just drives home the point that the way we tend to our children will be different based on our skills, interests, and convictions. Not to mention the needs and personalities of our kids. But, the point is making the time to garden.
Sorry everyone. The blogging has been crazy. Posts deleted and then back, not able to log in, etc. etc. All is well now in blog world and we return to our regular schedule. Since I know some of you only read via email, you might want to check the blog for posts you missed because of the craziness! :)
Gardener Of Souls
"Children do not accidently become mature adults of strong character, great faith, gracious relational skills, effective leadership qualities, and sharp intellects. God's design includes the presence of a hands -on gardener, a mother, to tend an cultivate their hearts, souls, minds, and relationships."
This is so true how can children grow in these ways without some help? She continues to talk about cultivating real skills, appropriate life experiences, manners and graciousness, appetities for excellence, and your own special garden.
As I look at each of these I think of some of my friends and how well they garden in certain aspects. How I can see their strenghts in gardening.
It just drives home the point that the way we tend to our children will be different based on our skills, interests, and convictions. Not to mention the needs and personalities of our kids. But, the point is making the time to garden.
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Mom Time- The Mission on Motherhood Book Club (Chapter 1)
So, here we are our first week in the book.
Chapter 1: A Journey Like No Other
This chapter really spoke about how motherhood is viewed. Some view it as a noble and important calling. Some view it as a lifestyle option and to many people this could be considered a lesser option. Depending on what people feel is important. There really are big gaps in what people view motherhood to be. But, as she said in the book, " God has an important mission for mothers....We mothers have the opportunity to influence eternity by building a spiritual legacy in the lives of our children."
Your children are going to gain so much by walking through life with you. You provide for them a clear model on how to live for them. She states that "It (motherhood) requires that I become a mature counselor, ready at any moment to make decisions judiciously. It also requires that I develop skills in hospitality, nursing, intellectual process, diplomacy, leadership training, and more, and that I stretch my creativity to the max."
I often think as I spend time with Little Man how my words and actions will influence him. I view him as such a great gift and blessing and daily try to convey this message to him. I am humbled that God chose me to raise this amazing boy and truly honored to be his Mom. I also remind myself that I am raising someone's husband and father and that thought is very powerful to me.
I leave you with one more quote from Chapter 1 and a questions for response.
Quote: "The mother who reaches the heartfelt needs of her children by helping them feel loved and secure, by believing in their dreams, by noticing when they stray and gently steering them back in the right direction, and by teaching them what they need to know to live full and meaningful lives accomplishes a great work for the Lord."
Allow that to really soak in....
Questions for those that are following along:
What was the biggest thing you took away from this chapter?
Do you already do one or more of her "something to try" items? If not, are you going to start any of them?
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This chapter really spoke about how motherhood is viewed. Some view it as a noble and important calling. Some view it as a lifestyle option and to many people this could be considered a lesser option. Depending on what people feel is important. There really are big gaps in what people view motherhood to be. But, as she said in the book, " God has an important mission for mothers....We mothers have the opportunity to influence eternity by building a spiritual legacy in the lives of our children."
Your children are going to gain so much by walking through life with you. You provide for them a clear model on how to live for them. She states that "It (motherhood) requires that I become a mature counselor, ready at any moment to make decisions judiciously. It also requires that I develop skills in hospitality, nursing, intellectual process, diplomacy, leadership training, and more, and that I stretch my creativity to the max."
I often think as I spend time with Little Man how my words and actions will influence him. I view him as such a great gift and blessing and daily try to convey this message to him. I am humbled that God chose me to raise this amazing boy and truly honored to be his Mom. I also remind myself that I am raising someone's husband and father and that thought is very powerful to me.
I leave you with one more quote from Chapter 1 and a questions for response.
Quote: "The mother who reaches the heartfelt needs of her children by helping them feel loved and secure, by believing in their dreams, by noticing when they stray and gently steering them back in the right direction, and by teaching them what they need to know to live full and meaningful lives accomplishes a great work for the Lord."
Allow that to really soak in....
Questions for those that are following along:
What was the biggest thing you took away from this chapter?
Do you already do one or more of her "something to try" items? If not, are you going to start any of them?
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Mom Time-Thriving Family
There are a few articles over at Thriving Family that I wanted to point out to all of you.
Early Years: teaching consideration for others
Discovery: teaching responsibility
Tweens: let them go and let them grow
Teens: least of these and your teens
Great articles, read the ones your child(ren) are in now or read them all. :) Thanks, Angie for pointing me in the way of this magazine. I LOVE it!
Early Years: teaching consideration for others
Discovery: teaching responsibility
Tweens: let them go and let them grow
Teens: least of these and your teens
Great articles, read the ones your child(ren) are in now or read them all. :) Thanks, Angie for pointing me in the way of this magazine. I LOVE it!
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
10 Thoughts on Tuesday (Time Management Winner Announced)
1. I love when Little Man sets goals. Especially his goal of reading through the bible in a year. Which he's on track to complete. :) If you are looking for a way to have your child(ren) do this as well, might I suggest...
2. My old blog was full of pictures, of course there was a reason why. But, I do think this blog needs a few more. What do you all think?
3. I am reading a new book and I LOVE it! It's a devotional for Moms. The messages have been wonderful.
Click here to order your own copy! :)
4. When I got the above book, Little Man told me I was not ordinary but that I was extraordinary, also. Yes, he does melt my heart--often I tell you.
5. I loved watching Little Man sing with enthusiasm "Our God" at Church on Sunday. But, what was better was he was singing that song during the afternoon as he was going about his day. You too can enjoy the music here. Sorry, it's not him singing it. Although that would be entertaining. :)
6. Did I mention I love watching the spiritual side of my child grow. I do. It makes this Mom's heart VERY happy. :)
7. Little Man told me before he lost his first tooth that the tooth fairy certainly was not real. Yes, cry with me that I never got to play that. But, don't worry he still insists that the Mommy Tooth Fairy visits him. :) Well, he had hurt his finger a while back. (He slammed it in the car door). I know ouch! Well, the nail finally fell off. So,what does Little Man ask? Mom is there any such thing as a nail fairy? With his sweet smile lighting up his face. He wanted to be sure that he wasn't left out if that was something that others believed in. :)
8. Ever have the moments when speaking truth might cause you to be unpopular? Where you want to stand up for what is right, but it goes against others? What do you do? Do you stand up for what is right and speak the truth or do you sit down and go with the flow? It's easier to go with the flow and stay in good graces, but is that really better? Something to think about.
9. Our house is happy that the Steelers are going to the Superbowl. :)
10. WINNER for time management help. Shannon and Wha! Since only 2 responded, I will help the two of you. One at a time. Send me an email and we will get the process rolling.
I am already planning the next give away. (Think blog header!)
I know I shared more about us on a personal level here than what I normally do. Is that good? bad? I don't know. Will I do it again? I don't know.
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| Photo from Amazon |
3. I am reading a new book and I LOVE it! It's a devotional for Moms. The messages have been wonderful.
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| picture from Amazon.com |
4. When I got the above book, Little Man told me I was not ordinary but that I was extraordinary, also. Yes, he does melt my heart--often I tell you.
5. I loved watching Little Man sing with enthusiasm "Our God" at Church on Sunday. But, what was better was he was singing that song during the afternoon as he was going about his day. You too can enjoy the music here. Sorry, it's not him singing it. Although that would be entertaining. :)
6. Did I mention I love watching the spiritual side of my child grow. I do. It makes this Mom's heart VERY happy. :)
7. Little Man told me before he lost his first tooth that the tooth fairy certainly was not real. Yes, cry with me that I never got to play that. But, don't worry he still insists that the Mommy Tooth Fairy visits him. :) Well, he had hurt his finger a while back. (He slammed it in the car door). I know ouch! Well, the nail finally fell off. So,what does Little Man ask? Mom is there any such thing as a nail fairy? With his sweet smile lighting up his face. He wanted to be sure that he wasn't left out if that was something that others believed in. :)
8. Ever have the moments when speaking truth might cause you to be unpopular? Where you want to stand up for what is right, but it goes against others? What do you do? Do you stand up for what is right and speak the truth or do you sit down and go with the flow? It's easier to go with the flow and stay in good graces, but is that really better? Something to think about.
9. Our house is happy that the Steelers are going to the Superbowl. :)
10. WINNER for time management help. Shannon and Wha! Since only 2 responded, I will help the two of you. One at a time. Send me an email and we will get the process rolling.
I am already planning the next give away. (Think blog header!)
I know I shared more about us on a personal level here than what I normally do. Is that good? bad? I don't know. Will I do it again? I don't know.
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